How to stop dating a girl
For happily married people, the trials of meeting a mate are ancient history that they’ve completely glossed over.
So they often parrot off clichés like “you’ll meet the right one when you most expect it” and “you’ll find him when you aren’t looking.” When you’re on this emotional roller coaster, these well meaning statements are enough to make you want to cold clock someone in the face.
Enough pain that I would like to see us undertake a thorough overhaul of the unwritten rules about what to do when we feel little or no emotional connection when dating and we need to stop.
I believe that asking yourself that will reveal that it's dishonest and deceptive to not tell a person directly that dating them isn’t working for you. is thinking happy and expectant thoughts, or worrying about what’s going on?
Not only that, but it’ll also likely reveal that getting a message through hints such as unreturned calls is crueler because it forces a person to struggle with an unknown. Obviously, the person on the receiving end of the "hints" is not enjoying a positive experience.
As a person who goes on maybe one date every two months let me just say this: dating is stupid and I hate it. Stop prioritising everything that isn’t kindness and emotional support and being a decent partner and just see what happens. What it’s not for is acrimony and interpersonal struggles and constantly feeling let down.
But also let me say this: it’s very good and why the hell not. It’s not fair on you, it’s not fair on them, and it’s definitely not fair on me.